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* Personal Ads
Find partners, penpals, friends, dates. Search categories include bondage, blindfolds, chains, cling film (saran wrap), crossdressing, domination, handcuffs, high heels, leather, foot fetish, spanking, roleplaying, whips, more. You can search by zip code or state, to see the people who are within driving distance of you.*
Personal ads site for BDSM, fetish, alternative folks. (To cancel, you have to send an email titled "Resign Membership" to containing your username, password, email addy, birthdate and zip code. Talk about overkill!)*

BDSM Contacts UK
Find your match. Mistresses, slaves, masters, TV's, more.*

BDSM Personals
Personal ads.

BDSM Realities Personals

BDSM-Fetish-Kink Discussion Forum

Beauty Found at Beauty Bound
Personal ads, also bondage topics, Midori's Lair.

Bondage Personal Ads
Personal ads are permitted in Lorelei's bedroom bondage yahoo group. Come read, post or lurk!

Bondage Room at
aka Weirdchat

BDSM forum which strangely has a lot of sections for non BDSM posts. Personal ad section which strangely has half of its categories devoted to Vanillas. Chat via Webpage Personal Ads is a large BDSM community and a bondage and fetish website. Register for a free account and get bondage and fetish pictures and video, BDSM personals, stories, and BDSM/fetish community forums.*

Bound and Gagged Forum
Bondage forum.*

Brian's Page
Discussion forums for bondage scenes in movies and on TV. Also other forum topics.

Chatrooms at
Chatrooms categorized by interest.*

Chatropolis Chatrooms
Scroll down the list to get to the BDSM/fetish rooms.
Bondage suspension site that focuses on crucifixion positions. Interesting niche. Mostly nude suspension bondage and spread positions. Paysite, DVDs, and forum.

DreamMall BDSM Personal Ads

Ds Kiosk Classifieds
BDSM personal ads.

Ethereal Realms
Chat site for role-playing and/or community connections.*

Personal ads for gothic, fetish, bondage, alternative. Everything is free! Profiles, browsing, chat, events, more. Diverse group of friends and lovers. Layout note: this site is not designed for the internet-standard screen size of 1024x768, so most of you will have to scroll sideways. (I did...) Hopefully this design problem will be corrected soon.*

Fetish Scene
Bondage/BDSM/fetish parties, gatherings, clubs, groups, conventions, munches, organizations. Listings organized by U.S. state, other countries.

Annual bondage/fetish convention, hosted by Vesta, Stacy Burke, Genesis Lynn and friends. Convention formerly known as BondCon NYC.*

Forums & Personals at CraigsList
Pick your city or state, and check out the Personal Ads and BDSM/Fetish Forums.
Italian personal ads site. Some bondager listings. In Italiano and English.

Geocities BDSM Personals

Kinkd Up
Community website mainly for the UK BDSM scene. Personal ads, mistress directory, forums. Hosted by my longtime buddy Stan.

London Fetish Scene
News, reviews, articles, features, event calendar, letters, personal ads, photo gallery, message board, more.*

LoveTied Personal Ads
A place to hook up with people of similar bondage interests.
This is a personal-ads site. It's not fetish-oriented, but it has a staggering number of single people using it. Type in your zip code and you'll see, there are tons of people within driving distance that you could meet.*

Mistress Match
BDSM personals, femdom, explanation of the most common BDSM practices.*

Notes on Safety for Meeting
Criminal cases of murder, stalking, sexual assault, and abuse committed under the guise of consensual BDSM. Be careful when chatting online, giving out personal information, and meeting people!

Rope Talk
Bondage chat room.

Sacred Devotion: Master & Slave Forum
Forum community for couples or singles who wish to learn more, or share information about, a monogamous BDSM lifestyle. Hosted by Master A and boundkitten.

Safe Call Service, by PEER
Planning on meeting someone for the first time? Or planning an abduction Scene? Arrange to check in with someone on the outside.

Seducity Virtual World

BDSM chat (irc and java), information, lifestyle essays, erotic stories and photos, links.

Owner/slave personals. Community of dedicated people interested in an Owner/slave lifestyle.

The Realm
Online virtual roleplaying community.

Threshold Los Angeles - Yahoo Group
Forum to meet members of the Threshold BDSM/fetish club. (Local members include Lorelei & Jon, Dorothy Laine & Tim and other bondage aficionados.) Hang out and talk about BDSM/fetish, or ask questions about the club and its parties, gatherings and events.*

Ties That Bind BDSM Chat Community
Online BDSM Chat Community for those interested in or living the BDSM D/s lifestyle. No porn, no java consoles, no downloads.

Yahoo's list of BDSM personal ad sites

Zarter Schmerz
Online community in Germany. Fair and openminded. For beginners and the experienced. Chat, forums, artikels just around BDSM.*


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