A Primer On Cloth Gags

An Interrogation Scene
Read this with your partner, and discuss. If you participated in this scene, what activities would you have added? What sections of this scene would you not have done?

Autumn Tears
For those who have been abused within the confines of a BDSM relationship or in a BDSM community, or survivors of other abuse.

Backlash UK
The UK government seeks to criminalise material showing sexual practices that it doesn't approve of, even if they're between consenting adults. This site is a rallying point for BDSM practitioners.

BDSM Safety at FrugalDomme.com

BDSM/Fetish Kink Checklist
Negotiation form.

Better BDSM
Listings of informational resources. Safety, Activities, Directories.

Bondage Forum & Message Board
Discussions, musings and dialogues about bondage. Hosted by Lorelei.

Bondage is Freedom
Article by Elaine Miller, from the Slap & Tickle series.

Bondage Tutorials by MorTis
Bondage how-to's. Sections include History of Shibari, Rope Safety, Basic Techniques, Bondage Positions, Emergencies, Rope sizes And Lengths. And lots of other positions and ties.

Bondage University
Bondage techniques, rope bondage tying tips, information, education, glossary of bondage terms, articles, and advice about restraint play.

Breath Control - Dangers

Caryl's BDSM and Fetish
Excellent site for new people exploring D/s and their fetishes. Articles about finding partners online, safety, links, personal ad resources, be sure to click the "caryl" link and read about her personal online experiences too.*

Cheap Bondage by Master Rick
Do-it-yourself inexpensive bondage projects.

Chicago Rope And Mummification
Illinois. Monthly pansexual meeting for people who love rope and mummification. For any experience level from beginners to experts, and any style of rope bondage or mummification.

Chloroform and Liver Failure
Do not use real chloroform during chloro roleplay.

Chloroform Hazard Summary
Do not use real chloro during chloro roleplay.

Chloroform Toxicity
Do not use real chloroform during chloro roleplay.

Cyber Rights and Cyber Liberties
UK Web site for free speech and privacy which fights against child pornography.

DeLano Bound
DeLano's personal exploration of his bondage life. Bound by beautiful bondage partners, binding beautiful bondage partners. The site examines connection and intent in bondage play and bondage art.*

Desire - Leather Women Unleashed
Annual gathering in Palm Springs of BDSM/fetish women. For play, presentations, one-on-one sessions, and frolicking naked in the outdoor pool.

Erotimania
Mistress Katt's human sexuality resource site. Articles, personal ads, e-cards, forums, stories.

Feminists Against Censorship
Supporting freedom of speech means you may have to hear and see expression that you don't like. But if you cave in to censorship, you will still hear expression you don't like - from the Powers That Be - and be left without a voice to counter it.

Fetisch.ch - German BDSM and Bondage Community
German Speaking BDSM and Bondage Community

FetishCon
Annual bondage/fetish convention, hosted by Vesta, Stacy Burke, Genesis Lynn and friends. Convention formerly known as BondCon NYC.*

Guide to Dealing With the Police
Article at sexuality.org

Healthy Breast Bondage

Help Links at ProDomination.com
Excellent list of helpful BDSM sites and articles.

Homemade Fetish Gear
Contribute your ideas for homemade bondage and fetish gear, or read others' contributions.*

How to tie Rope Cuffs
Rope hobble cuffs (on a rope leash) - technique explained in photos by Alebeard.

How-To Bondage Video
Another place to buy Jay Wiseman's how-to presentation.

Iron Rose Community

Just Another Excuse to Censor
Article about studies of pornography "effects", etc.

Kink Aware Professionals
Psychologists, counselors, psychiatrists, physicians who are not negatively judgemental of fetishism and BDSM.

Kink-Friendly Licensed Therapist
Samuel Allen, MA, NCC, LPC is a licensed psychotherapist located in NC, with telephone counseling available everywhere. Specialist in transgender issues. Kink/leather-friendly.

KnottyBoys.com
"As experienced professional riggers, we Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) can show you how to put fun, safety and artistry into the ages-old discipline of rope play. Through our San Francisco based, hands-on workshops, Two Knotty Boys will shape your skills in quickly tying restraints that are as beautiful as they are functional. Our goal is to demystify bondage and put the fun into it, all the while making it safer and much more aesthetically pleasing." Particularly fascinating overview of specific rope ties at http://www.knottyboys.com/Page11.htm

LolitaWolf's Rope Basics

Lorelei's Self-Bondage Page
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Midori: FetishDiva.com
BDSM and bondage instruction, seminars, gallery, about Midori, more. Author of "The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage".

Mummification Bondage For Fun
How to use Ace bandages to wrap your captive up Egyptian-mummy style.

Nawashi Syndrome - column by Mistress Matisse
Interesting viewpoint on the popularity of Japanese bondage, nawashi's, shibari, etc.

NY-Exotics.com
Escorts, adult entertainment, exotic related services in New York, Long Island and New Jersey areas. Listings of massage experts, escorts, VIP, fetish/roleplay, more. Free access.

Partnership/Commitment Compatibility Test
I keep telling the models I meet, many of whom are in their 20s, that the belief "Love Conquers All" is not correct. Often these ladies get into love relationships and are stuck for years trying to make things work right. Love does not conquer all, and the first person you fall in love with is not necessarily the right person for you. Look at this test and think about it...

Protective Order denied due to Slave Contract
Word to the wise.

Revise f65
European network built to work towards the removal of Fetishism and SM as psychiatric diagnoses from the ICD, the International Classification of Diseases published by the World Health Organization (WHO).

Rope Fashions
Rope techniques, tying how-to's, tips. Features: breast harness, rope bit-gag (2 types), hair bondage, single-limb tie (2 types), braided crotchrope, vibrating crotchrope, more.

RopeRigger.com
Online resource dedicated to the San Francisco Bay Area rope bondage scene. "Whether you’re new to the scene, a rope bondage enthusiast, a seasoned rope rigger, a host of rope bondage workshops or a web producer looking for a place to post jobs… RopeRigger.com is the online resource for you." Info about: rope bondage friendly events, rope bondage related workshops, rope bondage discussion groups, rope bondage practice groups, more.*

Scenarios of Bondage Sex Play
At sextoys411.com.

SensationSM - BDSM french portal
BDSM and fetish portal with ads, pics, chat, movies and more - free for couples and women

Sexual Freedom Coalition
"Sexual Freedom is the freedom to enjoy consensual adult sexual activities in private (and secluded places), whether it is paid sex, free sex, married sex, sex with strangers, gay sex, sex involving people with disabilities, people engaging in consensual BDSM, and a combination of these things. Sexual Freedom is the freedom of adults to see, hear or experience any kinds of sexual entertainment, although the creation of such entertainment should not involve exploitation or sexual abuse."

slaven
Netherlands BDSM site.

SM Precautions

SM Squaddie Skinhead Biker
Reflections of a London squaddie skinhead biker. Interests: submission wrestling, leather biker, pony, medical doctor fantasies; rope bondage, boots & shorts or naked hiking, backpacking. Seeking private safe mutual fun, weapon-free, non-commercial and non-political.

ST BDSM Ezine
Feed your kink! E-Zine for those interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. Accurate, free and erotic. Learn about BDSM practices, sexuality, health, safety, erotica, reviews, poetry, humor, photography, art.*

Submissive Women Speak
Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.*

Superheroines in Bondage Forum

Tammad: Gentleman Barbarian (and rope lover!)
A good selection of essays on BDSM by this engaging man. Includes his how-to page and negotiation list.*

The Did-tionary
Glossary of damsel terminology.

The Furry Code
Learn about the Furry Code, encode your own furry interests, decode another furry's interests.

The Isle of Pain and Pleasure
BDSM/fetish FAQ, stories, poems, personal ads, advice. In Swedish and English.

The Spanner Trust
The Spanner Trust exists to defend the rights of sadomasochists of all sexual orientations and specifically to reverse the UK court ruling which made certain SM activities illegal even though all parties consent. (UK)

Toward a Lasting Romantic Relationship
Essay with many points that are particularly important for fetishists to consider.

videosm

Will Your Safety Harness Kill You?
Issues of chest-area suspension harnesses. Article may be of interest to those who do bondage suspension.

XXXExpose Interview
A strange psuedo-interview of two producers talking to each other about their documentary. The resulting site is gone but this interview survives. Allegations of brainwashing techniques and cult lifestyle at Insex.com's studios. Unusual reading up to extreme interpretations.